chaperone

lately ni
ain suka baca
buku-buku karya
PG Wodehouse

karya orang zaman dahulu
buka mata ain
tentang cara hidup
orang barat

ain tertarik dengan
"The Adventures Of Sally"
pertembungan dua budaya
satu budaya american
satu budaya english
atau lebih dikenali dengan british

sesuatu menarik di sini
masyarakat british
zaman itu
mungkin dari
pengaruh arab
yang bermula dari
zaman renaissance
punya cara hidup
yang lebih baik
dari american

jelas di perlihat kan
apabila Uncle Donald
punya pandangan buruk
terhadap sally
yang telah ke paris
secara berseorangan
tanpa chaperone

tapi sayang
budaya chaperone
sudah jarang di guna kan
bukan sahaja
di negara barat
malah
di negara malaysia
sendiri

betapa masyarakat
telah berubah
kepada yang
"lebih terbuka"
dan
"open minded"
dan tidak punya
"kongkongan"
terutama kepada
wanita khusus nya


diambil dari wikipedia


A chaperone (or occasionally chaperon) is an adult who accompanies or supervises one or more young, unmarried men or women during social occasions, usually with the specific intent of preventing inappropriate social or sexual interactions or illegal behavior (e.g., underage drinking or illegal drug use). The chaperone is typically accountable to a third party, usually the parents of one of the accompanied young people.

The word derives figuratively from the French word chaperon, meaning "hood", and later a kind of hat. This is either from this sense or from falconry, where the same word meant the hood placed over the head of a bird of prey to stop its desire to fly.

Traditionally, a chaperone was an older married or widowed woman accompanying a young woman when men would be present. Her presence was a guarantee of the virtue of the young woman in question. Female chaperones were also called dueñas, a Spanish word, meaning "owners" (female)[citation needed]. Chaperones for young men were not commonly employed in Western society until the latter half of the 20th century.