5 magic words

petang ni tiba-tiba teringat
orientation week form 1
aka zaman freshies

first thing yang ain belajar
masa masuk college
"5 magic words"

• salam
• excuse me
• sorry
• please
• thank you

jenuh menghafal
bukan susah pun sebenar nya
just kadang-kadang tersalah sebut

sebab apa ye masa tu susah nak hafal?
maybe sebab sebelum tu
ain jarang guna

masa dekat college
seniors banyak ajar pasal manners
even sekecil zarah
it does count

ingat lagi
everytime nak jumpa senior
susun ayat cantik-cantik
before bercakap
and kena pasti kan
masa bercakap
mesti ada that 5 magic words...
e.g :
salam kak in
(my jr do call me kak in =p)
excuse me kak in
sorry kacau kak in
please kak in,boleh tak tolong sign dekat sini?
thank you kak in...=)
(the end of the 'junior' conversation with me)

and hari ni
i do heard
people keep complaining
about manners

and yes
i do feel
sometimes susah sangat nak tengok people
to use their common sense
to show their good manners
especially when it comes to conversation

the way you talk to other people
actually represent your manners

my senior once said to me

"respect is not something that you can gain
when you have a position in a society
it is actually something that you can simply get
when you have manners"

so if after this
people do talk to you
with no manner
reflect back your manners
when you talk to other people

dont judge people around you
instead
judge yourself first


p/s: semalam...
someone sakit kan hati ain
buat ain marah dan terasa
then...
bila ain fikir balik
ain sendiri tak jaga mulut
masa bercakap
so why should i make a fuss???